Friday, August 26, 2011

Skill development through Self Management


Self Management Process:
People frequently ask what is this Self Management, why self management and How to do so...
It has been explained in previous posts that it is not so easy. There are several components of Self Management, some of them are radiated in the picture below:

Health Management, Thought Management, Time Management and Will-power Management are the primary components

Stress Management, Anger Management,Lifestyle Management Diet Management and other practical aspects are the secondary components of this process.

Management of self grows slowly and it develops the potentials and skills in life. What should be the next step in our life? Meditate for a while, Try to find out the objective and work hard to achieve that. It depends what we want to develop....... Strength grows when we dare, Unity grows when we cheer, Mission grows when we share... & Team grows when we care....

Saturday, August 20, 2011

Meditation: A Self Management Technique


The Practice of Meditation is to open the inner eyes. Explaining what mediation is, it can be said that it is an art of observation and Guru is the one who teaches us to observe. Negativity is prevailing because the art of viewing (circumstances) has deteriorated. It is the time to change our outlook and our attitude to stay away from negativity. Giving an example, Gurudev Pandit Sri Ram Sharma Acharya wrote a book 'Mahakal aur Yug Pratyavartan Prakriya' in six days during the acute pain of Sciatic in his legs. This is idealism of doing the constructive work even in the most adverse situations. The path of spirituality is like walking on a double edged sword. All the great saints like Meera, Kabir, Ramkrishna Paramhans, Shri Arvind and Vivekananda has faced immense difficulties. Sacrifice is the key for walking on the path of spirituality and the biggest sacrifice is to lose self, our own existence, our own ego. Dhyan is a process where Guru gives a new eye. Because the physical eyes can see the circumstances around but the INNER eye is to watch within i.e. our emotions and our thoughts. If we want to tackle the circumstances around we need to see within as the solution for the source of the problems around. The biggest barriers for Dhyan is our past sanskar and our way of living. These conflicts within us can be destroyed by Guru. Maharshi Arvind calls human beings as 'Mental Animals' whose biological nature dominates the psychological nature. Untill the sanskars are cleansed, a person cannot change. All academic degrees have no value in front of the art of Dhyan. Dhyan is a process of cleansing sanskars. One can run away from everything in this world except his own mind. Dhyan lessens the weight of mind. Dhyan gives us an introduction to our own self. Dhyan is a process to fill our self with light. If we want to have a wider vision as compared with an average person and if we want to develop our emotional quotient,we must perform Dhyan. Dhyan (Meditation) is the only process to develop the divinity within

Thursday, August 11, 2011

Self Management Technique (Yoga Nidra)



Yoga Nidra is one of the finest way to Self Management Yoga-Masters as well as Psychologists are using it now days as a Psycho-spiritual Technique of Healing. Ancient Indian scriptures are pregnant with the knowledge of self realization. Yoga Nidra may be one such technique at the same path. It is a complete practice of Yoga Sadhana. It can lead the aspirant at the stage of Samadhi. These days Yoga Nidra is practiced as a best-known technique to induce complete physical mental and emotional relaxation. Yoga Nidra is a state of consciousness, which is, neither sleep nor awaken, neither is it concentration nor hypnotism. It can be defined, as an altered state of consciousness.

For the practice of Yoga Nidra one should lie flat on his back and follow the spoken instruction of yoga instructor. It is convenient to use Yoga Nidra tape. During the practice there should be no movement by the practitioner, as well as he should try to remain awake and aware of every given instruction. In Yoga Nidra, it is not necessary to concentrate. One should just keep the mind moving from point to point and be aware of every experience. Yoga Nidra means sleep with a trace of awareness. Practice of Yoga Nidra in this study is the simplest method of relaxation which is being practiced in the flat lying position of shavasana and follows the spoken instruction of Yoga instructor. The practice includes the resolve, body part awareness, breath awareness and visualization.

Scientists are taking advantage of new technologies to see exactly what goes on inside the brains of Yoga nidra practitioners. The neuroscientists hypothesize that regular meditation actually alters the way the brain is wired, and that these changes could be at the heart of claims that meditation can improve health and well-being. But the rigors of the scientific method might never have been applied to studying the practice of Yoga Nidra.

Dr. Kamakhya Kumar in 2006 awarded by Ph. D. degree by Dr. A. P J Abdul Kalam (President of India) for his work "Psycho-physiological Changes as Related to Yoga Nidra". He observed six months effects of yoga nidra on some Physiological, hematological and some Psychological parameters on the practitioners and he found a significant change on above mentioned parameters.


Saturday, July 23, 2011

Argument and its management


Argument is one of the important aspect of research,
without it we cant reach on a conclusion.
Likewise argument is important part of life also....
I Believe...
That just because two people argue,
It doesn't mean they don't love each other.
And just because they don't argue,
It doesn't mean they do love each other.
So just take every discussion with a feeling of witness ......
manage the argument towards positive side of result....

Tuesday, May 31, 2011

Anger Management


Anger is a negative emotion. It is as dangerous as the poison. If the poison taken directly, it stops the life but if it is used as medicine it activates the life. So It needs to be managed. There are some techniques in Yoga which helps in anger management.

Pranayama is the fourth part of the eight-fold Yoga described in the Yogasutra of Patanjali. The credit for making the practice of pranayama popular as a discipline in its own right and as a means for maintaining the health of the body and mind goes to the followers of HathaYoga. They gave it a place of great importance among the practices of HathaYoga, and it was they who described various techniques of pranayama, emphasizing the utility of each of them.

Shitali pranayama is one such technique to be practiced into very stressful situation to manage the stress. There are instructions to practice them comfortably.

Adopt any comfortable meditative posture simply cross legged, Padmāsana or Sidhāsana with spine erect. Relax the body and close the eyes. Observe the natural breath. In the meditative pose slowly fold the tongue like a tiny pipe and the beak of crow. Inhale with this pipe and exhale with nostrils.

Feel the coolness in the buccal cavity. Observe the cooling effect on body and mind both. this practice not only reduces the blood pressure immediately but it releases the anxiety from your mind also. Practice it to realize the fact....



Sunday, May 15, 2011

Stress Management through Yoga Nidra

Stress is a cognitive or emotional response made by the individual towards any situation, which demands adjustment. Udupa (1978) suggests that stress-related disorders evolve gradually through four stages. In the first stage, psychological symptoms like anxiety and irritability arise due to over activation of the sympathetic nervous system. The second stage is characterized by related physical symptoms like high blood pressure, increased heart rate etc. In the third stage, the abnormalities manifest clinically in the organ systems. In the last stage, severe symptoms in particular organs result which need long-term medical management.

Scientists are taking advantage of new technologies to see exactly what goes on inside the brains of Yoga nidra practitioners. The neuroscientists hypothesize that regular meditation actually alters the way the brain is wired, and that these changes could be at the heart of claims that meditation can improve health and well-being. But the rigors of the scientific method might never have been applied to studying the practice of meditation.

Modern psychology as well as yogic philosophy believes in three kinds of tension - muscular tensions, emotional tensions and mental tensions - which can be progressively released through the systematic and regular practice of Yoga and Meditation. Muscular tension results from nervous and endocrinal imbalances. It manifests in the form of stiffness and rigidity in the physical body. In the practice of Meditation the body is progressively relaxed, which in turn releases the accumulated muscular tensions.

Yoga nidra is probably best-known technique to induce complete physical mental and emotional relaxation. Yoga nidra is a state of consciousness, which is, neither sleep nor awaken, neither is it concentration nor hypnotism. It can be defined, as an altered state of consciousness

Swami Rama (1998) is a state between sleep and Samadhi. It is a half- sleep and half waking state: it is not a waking state, and it is not really a sleep state. Yoga nidra is a state of conscious sleep in which one can record what is going on. There is a fine demarcation between Yoga nidra and Samadhi. In yoga nidra one can record those which he cannot receive in the conscious state. When one cannot register something properly in the waking state, they can go into yoga nidra to register it.

Sri Ram Sharma Acharya (1995) Yoga nidra can be understood as scientific sleep. It is a total practice of yoga it self. The practice of Yoga nidra on the contrary allows one to attain a state of ‘awakened’ sleep. In this state, the body and the external mind (and hence the thought process) are made to sleep as per the order of the inner will. The determination, the willpower of the individual self remain active in this state and endeavor auto- suggestive experience of the power of the unconscious mind and its linkage with the soul.

Sw. Satyananda Saraswati (1975) explains Yoga nidra as a state of mind between wakefulness and dream. When someone practices Yoga nidra he opens the deeper phases of the mind. During the practice of Yoga nidra the consciousness is at different levels. Sometimes it is very close to the senses and at others, it is at a very remote distance. When the consciousness is at a remote distances. It is only possible to understand through the auditory channels. During Yoga nidra the consciousness is suspended for a few moments periodically, which means that it alternates between the subconscious and unconscious states. For the practice of Yoga nidra one should lie flat on his back and follow the spoken instruction of yoga instructor. It is convenient to use Yoga nidra tape. During the practice there should be no movement by the practitioner, as well as he should try to remain awake and aware of every given instruction.

Various studies have been done in different part of world for observing the effect of Yoga nidra. M.J. Cooper, (1979): in an important study at the University of Tel Aviv (Israel) says that Yoga nidra significantly lowered levels of serum cholesterol in cardiac patients. Erskine-Milliss, J. & Schonell, M., (1981) states that, the future role of Yoga nidra in coronary care and management regimes appears to be a major one. The value of the practice of yogic relaxation in prevention of cardiovascular disease has been fairly well recognized and accepted.

Sw. Mangalteertham (1998) proved through a series of study done at Cherring Cross Medical School London that it is a technique in which one can alter the states of consciousness from beta to alpha and then to delta. Therefore subject enjoys the different state of consciousness, knowingly. It is a pratyahara but also opens the door for meditation. Sharma, N. R. Yadava, A. Hooda, D. (2005) observed that practice of Yoga brings a harmony in psycho-physiology of the practitioners.

Deuskar, M. Poonawala, N. Bhatewara, S. A. (2006) fined a significant change in the performance of archers due to the practice of Yoga nidra. Kumar, Kamakhya (2008) observed a significant change in the stress level in his study. Result shows that Yoga nidra positively decrease the stress level of the male and female subjects both.

There is no question about the close relation between the body and the brain. Various centers in the brain control, modify, and affect our bodily functions. In fact, there is a center in the brain for every act, whether willful or reflex, physical or mental. Experimental data have identified many such specific centers. Stimulation of these centers leads to appropriate actions, be they motor or sensory, secretary or emotive, affective or cognitive. Thus we have a holographic representation of the body on the brain.

In Yoga nidra exactly opposite process is used to make the brain centers active by focusing awareness on the parts of the body in a definite sequence. Thus, the person tries to stimulate various parts of the brain by focusing the awareness on the corresponding parts of the body. By awareness is meant 'attitude of witness' towards physical or mental actions of the body. This stimulation ultimately results into relaxation and a reduction at Psycho-physiological level particularly stress in the practitioners of Yoga nidra.

When the individual fails to adjust to the situation, only then distress results. Some individuals are prone to developing distress due to their unconscious urge to remain tense. When distress continues for a long period, it may result in psychological disorders like neuroses or even psychoses. In the practice of Yoga nidra, the inherent tendency to become tense is rooted out and the individual starts viewing the situation as less demanding. Gersten (1978) said that the practitioner of Yoga nidra becomes his own psychotherapist, recognizing and systematically alleviating his own personal problems and interpersonal difficulties. It can be concluded that the practitioners of Yoga nidra becomes his own psychotherapist to manage his stress to live a stress free life.

Saturday, March 5, 2011

Kay Stairyam (Body Stillness) : Self management technique

You all will be agreeing with this statement i.e. there is a deep relation between body and mind. Practices of Hatha Yoga are based on same Principle - Cleansing of the mind through cleansing of the body. Practice of Kayasthairyam is also based on same principle - Stillness of the body : Stillness of the mind.

Why this stillness is so important? Because all the major or minor accidents are due to the fluctuation of the mind only. Just control over your nerves and all the success is in your hand.

How to practice Kaya stairyam? Sit comfortably in any meditative posture. Keep your eyes closed and try to normalize your breath. Become aware of the outer environment. With your closed eyes try to observe the surroundings. Slowly shift your awareness on your body and rotate your awareness on different body parts. Observe the stillness of the body. Say yourself I will not move, I will not move, I will not move.

Now the mind game starts......... Just feel that your body is made up of water molecules……… There is too much cold outside and the water molecules are getting freeze. Slowly all your body parts are going to be convert into Ice. As the time being it will become more tough and hard. Now the body is like a statue made up of Ice………….. You can think, you can observe, you can analyze everything but can’t move because you are a statue…………. Observe Total Stillness of the body……….. Be in the same feeling until you are enjoying the practice. There will be no thought, no anxiety, and no negativity in your mind. Experience the inner silence and just observe the control over your mind

Don’t quit the practice suddenly. Just become aware of the body and the surroundings. Slowly move your toes and figures. Rub your palm and sack your eyes. Gently open your eyes. Practice of Kayasthairyam is over.

This is the time to observe the effect of this practice. You will find a total fresh mind for your new job. Just do it now and let me know your experiences.